There is no place like home!!
Christmas Day my Mom fell and broke her hip. She had a partial hip replacement the next day. I traveled to her city on Sunday and am still here. My Dad isn't able to stay by himself for long periods of time, and isn't safe driving alone. So, looks like I'm here for a while -- at least 2 more weeks, I'm sure.
Mom is in a nursing home doing her PT. She is really doing well and has a tremendous attitude. She says that the place she is in is really nice to her and she is content to be there until she gets to come home.
As nice as they are, however, it still isn't home. She can't get up from bed without supervision, can't take any meds that they don't give her, and doesn't always get exactly what she wants to eat. Going to the bathroom isn't private anymore, and she severely feels the loss of her mobility.
I'm staying with Dad and I have to remember his schedule as well as mine. A frequent conversation goes like this . . . "Dad, have you taken your medicine? ..or..Dad, it is time to take your blood pressure. (We are doing that twice a day because it was a little out of whack and the dr. added a new medication. We'll see the Dr. next week, but I see it getting better each day.)
Dad fixes most of his own food, except for the evening meal, so it isn't like I'm overworked! I've only had to cook two evening meals since I got here. Last night I fixed some turkey and rice, which we had with green beans. Today, we ate lunch out. We also have left-overs from a meal that some church friends brought.
Even though I have all the necessities of life, I still miss being in my own home.
The near and dear to us may be as simple as having our own favorite cleaning supplies, the ability to turn on the TV at odd hours without disturbing someone else, cooking with one's own favorite pots and pans, etc. Do I sound like a whiner? Probably. I have use of my brother's computer for short periods of time but miss having it available anytime I want. I miss my sewing machine. I miss my Sweetie!
I miss my very own home.
Well, got it out of my system --
How are all of you doing?
If anyone is out there, please stop in and say hi!
Sunday, January 4, 2009
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I really know how you feel. I love knowing my favorite tea, mug, cream are right there anytime I want them.
Just think how great those things will be when you get home. At least as far as our things are concerned, absence does make the heart grow fonder.
Love,
d
i feel your pain ... i think you're doing an amazing job taking care of everybody and i know it's hard for you to be away from your own space. we're praying for you, so keep your chin up and let us know if we can do anything!
Thanks to the two of you for your encouragement. Hard days are ahead. We are now trying to evaluate the house as far as how she will come in and out of the house -- shower, etc. Her bathroom is crowded at the end where the "throne" and the shower are. I don't think we can get her in the shower. Daddy thinks he is 50 and has big plans to build all kinds of contraptions. Pleae keep us in your prayers.
Yes, it's one of those trying times! When my dad was sick, I was the only one available to help. All my other siblings had jobs and couldnt be there for him all the time. We had to redo the bathroom, making sure the wheelchair could go in etc..Spent three weeks with him..then home for a week or so back and forth! You are doing great taking care of them.. Hang in there!!!
Thanks, Janovi. Hope things are well with you.
Things are moving along -- Mom is now troubled with a sore throat, headache, and laryngitis (sp?)
BUT!!! She got into and out of my car today VERY handily! I was very proud of her because it wasn't easy. She also walked up and down a set of stairs without much problem. I see improvement every day.
Today I just dropped Dad off at the house and I went off by myself.
It was nice to have lunch alone, and then to go shopping. Didn't buy much -- but I did buy some template plastic with a grid printed on it to make myself a template for my new sewing machine embrodiery (sp?) hoops. Could have waited until I am home but somehow buying it today made me feel that there was light at the end of the tunnel.
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